Friday, August 26, 2011

Calm Before The Storm

It’s turning into a busier than usual day around the Smith abode.

We’re sterilizing and filling bottles with clean drinking water to go along with the many gallons we’ve bought. We’ll fill both bathtubs with water for flushing toilets and I’m in the throes of baking and cooking stuff that can be frozen, thawed and easily reheated on a grill. (Thankfully our neighbors have a generator and said we could run a power line over there to keep our fridge running.) Steve is currently outside with the chainsaw doing whatever it is that men with chainsaws do outside before storms.

Of course, I consider chocolate to be as necessary as flashlights, batteries and drinking water.

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Sarah and I went out for a few things this morning and I snapped some pictures along the way.

This is the front of our grocery store. . .

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. . and the stores next to the grocery store.

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After getting our groceries, we drove past a lovely bed and breakfast near the bay that sported this sign.

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I’ve always loved looking at this particular bed and breakfast whenever I’ve driven by; it’s even lovely with some of its windows boarded shut.

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A few blocks away in downtown Manteo, we saw this sign on a favorite restaurant.

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Another couple blocks away, I parked and took a few pictures of brave flowers who have no idea that their short, beautiful lives are about to end.

Beautiful and brave. Quite an epitaph.

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This path led to Manteo’s replica of the Queen Elizabeth; it’s tied down as securely as possible but of course there are no guarantees it’ll be still be there by tomorrow at this time.

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A few boats tied near the Queen Elizabeth.

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And my patient daughter waiting in the van for her camera happy mama to return.

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As you’ve probably surmised, we have decided to not evacuate. We are going to weather the storm in our church which is completely free of tall trees on three sides, has a second floor in case of flooding and is one of the higher points on the island. So with wind toppled trees and flooding being the two biggest safety concerns, we feel like we are covering both of those bases pretty well.

Also as pastors, Steve and I very much want to stay near our flock and our community and be able to lend helping hands—practical, spiritual, or otherwise—to those who will need it in the hours and days following the storm.

So unless something changes that we’re not anticipating, we’re here for the duration.

I’ll update as I can . . .

Beauty Contemplated

Looking at the calm beauty of these recent bike ride photos, it’s hard to comprehend the violence that will be visited upon our peaceful island in just a few short hours. I hate to think about what beauty-turned-to-ugliness my camera might be compelled capture in the days to come.

For all of us on the Outer Banks and along the East Coast of our great country, I pray for peace and protection in the storm.

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Thursday, August 25, 2011

Hurricanes and Birthdays

We’ve been staying occupied today by all sorts of preparation for the upcoming visit by a certain Miss Irene.  At this point, we think we will be staying in Manteo; however, we may move over to the church building during the storm since our house is surrounded by tall, heavy trees which do not tend to do well with high winds.

It sounds right now as though the hurricane may veer inland and come up through the sound, hitting the south end of our island with storm surges.  This is a very low lying area so, in addition to the high winds, the flooding issue is definitely one to be concerned about.

From what the locals have told us, one of the downsides of evacuating is that sometimes you can’t get back home for many days because of the roads being closed, which presents its own set of challenges.  So we’ll see. 

Thanks to all of you who have been thinking about us and checking on us; I’ll keep you in touch as we go along.

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And now on the final birthday installment!

Sarah celebrated her 16th birthday on three different occasions:  1) with her three friends two weeks before the actual date  2) With her grandparents and our friends, the Martins, the night before the actual date 3) And then--TA DA!—on August 23rd, her actual birthday.

Her big day started with a scrambled egg/waffle breakfast made by my very own hands.   (I kind of caught Sarah in mid-strawberry-chew  here.)

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Then we all  (all referring to her grandparents, Steve and me) thought it would be funny if she had some coffee, since she was celebrating such a momentous, almost-grown-up birthday.

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Sarah is like me.  She really does not like the flavor of coffee.  Can you tell?

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I was coerced into taking a sip of it myself, in order to provide some additional merriment for the gathered troops.   May I just say that the picture on the right is rather tame compared with another picture Steve took of me post-sip which was exceedingly awful.   (But which I couldn’t bring myself to post.)

I really and truly absolutely loathe and abhor the taste of coffee.  Ick.  Just.  Ick.

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After breakfast, Steve went off to work, Ken and Vernie left for Charlotte, and Sarah and Snowy hung out on the couch to wait for me. IMG_6353

Sarah’s birthday request was for her and me to spend the day reading a book together, going out to lunch and just doing some general mother/daughter hanging out.

We ate our lunch at Big Al’s in Manteo, which is famous for the thousands of Coca Cola items on display.

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We decided to eat outside because the sky was perfectly blue, the weather was perfectly balmy—and the company was perfectly lovely.

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We also went to get Sarah’s bangs cut in preparation for the start of the school year. While she waited for her appointment, her big brother called to wish her a happy birthday and they chatted cheerily about ten minutes.

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After we got back home, her friend, Taylor joined us for dinner, followed by one more donning of the Happy Birthday Hat and one more singing of the Happy Birthday Song.

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To sum it all up?

Sarah’s Sweet Sixteenth Birthday was a celebration spanning three events, two weeks, and one special girl.

And what a sweet birthday it was.

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And for a little ending bonus, I just ran across this collage I did several years ago.

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Wednesday, August 24, 2011

The Birthday Saga Continues

We just got back from school orientation.  What a joy it was to walk with Sarah from classroom to classroom knowing the path she has traveled to get to this point in her life.  I got a little teary eyed a couple times but that’s okay—moms are allowed tears at weird times.

Usually the most stressful part of any school year is getting one’s locker open for the first time.  Sarah showed that ol’ locker who was boss!

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Halfway through the rounds of meeting teachers and finding classrooms, the intercom burst forth with the news that the first day of school would not be tomorrow after all; school has been cancelled until at least Monday, due to to the impending storm. So when we left for the evening, it wasn’t to return in the morning as we’d originally thought.  At this point, no one knows quite when school will actually start.

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And now, backing up a little (sorry this isn’t chronological--my brain can’t seem to find Chronological Mode tonight)  here are a few scenes from a special birthday.

On Monday, Sarah spent the day with her grandparents who were visiting for a few days.  They went to Jockey’s Ridge which Ken (who is eighty years old) climbed to the top of. 

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Sarah and Vernie stayed behind to engage in scintillating grandma/granddaughter talk and also to gaze at the scenery.  (Sarah took this picture which I thought was rather lovely.)

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From there they went shopping at Claire’s, one of Sarah’s favorite stores, and then it was on to lunch and to the aquarium.   Nice to have such fun grandparents to hang out with!

That evening, we were joined by Jim and Ann who are blog friends turned into real life friends.  They were in the area celebrating their wedding anniversary so we invited them to join us for a pre-birthday dinner at a local restaurant.

After we’d finished eating, we drove up to the north end of the island to enjoy the sunset.

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Here is Sarah with Ann, who is also an avid photographer.

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Then it was back to the house for Sarah’s birthday dessert, chocolate éclair torte.   (The recipe didn’t call for all the decorative effects on top; I just couldn’t seem to stop myself from adding confectionary bling.)

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Sarah opened a few gifts and we all enjoyed just sitting and talking and celebrating our lovely young lady.

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Although I have yet more birthday stories/pictures to share, for tonight I’ll close out with this one which I really love. 

A beautiful girl looking at a beautiful future.

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The Birthday Hatted Birthday Girl

We’re in the throes of hurricane prep, several church functions, orientation meeting for school tonight and other exciting stuff so for right now, I’ll just share with you this birthday collage and add more stuff as I have a little more time.

In the picture on the left, Sarah is about five years old. I’m sure you’ve already pretty much figured out how old she is in the picture on the right! Although the hat is a little worse for wear, the wearer of the hat has done nothing but grow more lovely with the years.

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It was a wonderful sixteenth birthday; thanks to all of you who left birthday wishes for our miracle girl!

It’s turning into an eventful week with a big birthday, out of town guests, earthquake tremors, the first day of tenth grade, and a pending hurricane. I’ll be sure to keep you posted as the week progresses.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Earthquakes and Hurricanes.

Sarah and I were out and about today when I got a text from Steve asking, “Feel the earthquake?”

I had no earthly idea what he could possibly be referring to and I told Sarah, “Text him back and say ‘huh?’” 

Turns out he had been sitting on the couch in his office at church when he started feeling “dizzy.”  And then his couch started shaking.  And then he wondered if maybe his blood pressure was going wacky because if there’s one thing we North Carolinians don’t think about when things start shaking, it’s earthquakes.

But yep.  In this case it was an earthquake.  We had earthquake tremors in Manteo, NC.  How strange is that?

And now we have a (potentially serious) hurricane headed toward us this weekend. 

Oh happy day.

In non-weather news, Sarah had a really wonderful birthday—it was quite low key since she had done her wild partying with her three friends two weeks ago.  (And I use the term “wild partying” very loosely.)  

I have plenty of pictures and stories to share but for now I am taking my weary self off to bed where hopefully I will have deep, dreamless, and earthquake-less sleep.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Mishmash. Veritable.

Okay folks, I’m just warning you right off the bat that this is going to be a veritable mishmash of a post. But hey, sometimes mishmashes of the veritable variety are the way to go!

The first item of news is that this is a certain young lady’s last day to be fifteen years old. Tomorrow Princess Groovy Chick will celebrate her Sweet Sixteenth birthday and what a celebratory day that will be. (If you’d like to leave a comment and wish her a happy birthday, that would be wonderful.)

In other news, I blogged on Friday that the three of us were headed to Greenville to be with the family of a church member who was having a mastectomy. We got to the surgery town about noon and decided to stop at Burger King for a quick lunch.

Steve had started driving that morning but we had switched off halfway so I was behind the wheel when we pulled into the restaurant. As I was getting out of the van, I decided that I was going to be liberated for a change and not drag my purse inside with me. I keep threatening to not take my purse everywhere I go but I usually don’t follow through on those threats. On this day, however? It was Follow Through On Threat Day. I proclaimed to myself that I was not going to be burdened down with a 47-pound purse, just to run into Burger King for lunch.

The purse was on the floor on the passenger side so I leaned over, laid the keys in it, and hopped out of the van.

Sarah got out of the middle seat and hit the button for the automatic door to close just as Steve came around the back of the van saying, “Becky, do you have my . . . (door slides shut with a thunk) . . . keys?”

The light suddenly dawned. I realized (two seconds too late) that I had thought that his keys were my keys. And I had just put his keys into my purse. (Along with my keys.)

My response was a classic wife reply, “Um. Why yes, I do have your keys, honey. They are safe and sound. Inside my purse. Inside the locked van. Along with both of our cell phones.”

It was not the happiest of moments in the Smith Family Annals although I must say that except for one very long sigh, Steve did an excellent job of keeping his cool. We went into Burger King so that Steve could call a locksmith; unfortunately, the restaurant did not have a phone book and they said it was against company policy to allow us to call information. So Steve trudged on over to a nearby gas station to use their phone book and phone. The first three locksmiths he called couldn’t be there for at least an hour; the fourth one said he could come in thirty minutes. Happy day.

We had our lunch, waited on our Knight In Shining (Locksmith) Armor to arrive and finally made it to the Surgicenter about ten minutes after Cindy had been taken back. So much for being the organized, on time, efficient pastor’s family!

However, since much of the reason for going to someone’s surgery is to be with the waiting family, we were at least able to do that. It was a 3-hour surgery so we had plenty of time to chat with Cindy’s daughter, Michelle (also a breast cancer survivor), as well as Cindy’s husband.

After about forty-five minutes of pleasant chit chat had passed, we three figured we didn’t want to wear Michelle and John out with to0 much conversation, so we settled ourselves nearby for the duration.

Can you tell what our Passing The Time Equipment Of Choice is? Michelle thought our little line up was hysterical and that we needed to get a picture. . .

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. . . or two.

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By the end of the three hours we were told by the surgeon that the surgery had gone excellently and that the lymph nodes were clear. We were all so grateful—especially Sarah, Michelle and I, who have been through our own scary cancer surgeries.

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On a completely different note, I was in a particular business last week when I saw this toilet paper dispenser in the bathroom. It just struck me as really, really funny and I couldn’t resist the temptation to take a picture to share with my lovely blog readers.

Aren’t you so glad you dropped by here today?

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And lastly, on our long trip home from Florida recently, Steve and I were discussing for the fourteenth million time why people insist on driving slowly in the passing lane. I saw this picture on Facebook today and decided that I was going to lobby Congress to have this sign installed on every freeway in America.

Dontcha love it?

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COMMENTS

Mrs. Pam said, “What a fun picture! (Referring to the “jumping photo” I posted last week.) I think Sarah should go out for cheerleading. So, does this mean that Nathan and Meagan have all the professional photos now?

Mrs. Pam, we don’t have the professional photos yet. This was just one photo that Meagan had posted on Facebook. The rest of the photos should be ready very soon, though!

Trine said, Does Sarah still have to go to checks and so on at Duke since she is NED or is there no need for that anymore since she has been NED for 5 years? :)

Trine, actually Duke would like to see her every year since they are still following some heart/lung/hearing issues that she has. Plus, they just like to see their long term survivors on an ongoing basis because 1) long term survivors of NB are rare and 2) it helps them to keep records of the survivors’ progress and side effects.

However, since none of her issues are serious, we have been cutting back on the annual visits, simply for financial reasons. It’s a long trip that usually requires a hotel stay and very few of the appointment costs are covered by insurance. I really hate that because going back to Duke was always a highlight for us, getting to see her old doctors and nurses, visiting the transplant unit, etc.

I do stay in touch with her Duke oncologist by e-mail though and send him pictures of from various high points of her life. You can be sure he will get one of her celebrating her sixteenth birthday—a day that NONE of us us ever thought would come.

So grateful . . .